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Cham-pig-ne-ay and Caviar
I have just finished reading, Class: A guide through the American status system. Although the book is dated (1983,) it remains relevant. Author Paul Fussell looks at what separates Americans in regards to class. Not only is this book right on, but it is also hilarious, often times laugh out loud. Fussell separates classes into nine categories, which are:
Top out-of-sight
Upper
Upper middle
– – – – –
Middle
High proletarian
Mid-proletarian
Low proletarian
– – – – –
Destitute
Bottom out-of-sight
And although money is indeed raised as a factor in segregating the classes, the book goes on to show that it is really style/taste that matters. For instance, in regards to clothing, he says:
There are psychological reasons why proles feel a need to wear legible clothing, and they are more touching than ridiculous. By wearing a garment reading SPORTS ILLUSTRATED or GATORADE, the prole associates himself with an enterprise the world judges successful, and thus, for the moment, he achieves some importance.
In his section about decorating the house, Fussell remarks:
But the most notable characteristic of middle-class decor is the flight from any sort of statement that might be interpreted as “controversial” or ideologically pointed. One can’t be too careful. Pictures, for example: safe are sailing vessels, small children and animals, and pastoral scenes, unlike images that hint any ideological import, like “France,” “Civil War,” “New York City,” or “East European Immigration.” Argument or even disagreement must be avoided at all costs.
Regarding travel, we learn:
The touristic class is predominantly the middle… The middle is the class that makes cruse ships a profitable enterprise, for it fancies that the upper-middle class is to be mixed with on them, without realizing that that class is either peering at the minarets in Istanbul or hiding out in a valley in Nepal, or staying home in Old Lyme, Connecticut, playing backgammon and reading Town and Country.
And about what we read:
As readers, proles are honest, never trying to fake effects of simulate interest in higher things. It’s among the middle class that tastes in reading get really interesting, because it’s only here that pretense, fraud, and misrepresentation enter. The uppers don’t care what you think about their reading, and neither do the proles. The poor anxious middle class is the one that wants you to believe it reads “the best literature,” and condemnatory expressions like trash or rubbish are often on its lips… the middles, the great audience for how-to books, believe in authorities.
But the passage that made me laugh the most in the book came in the section talking about drifting or shifting between classes:
If social climbing, whether in actuality or in fantasy, is well understood, social sinking is not, although there’s more of it going on than most people notice. Male homosexuals and lesbians, respectively, exemplify these two opposite maneuvers. Ambitious male homosexuals, as least in fantasy, aspire to rise, and from humble origins to ascend to the ownership of antique businesses, art galleries and hair salons. The object is to end by frequenting the Great. They learn to affect elegant telephone voices and gravitate instinctively toward “style” and the grand. Lesbians, on the contrary, like to sink, dropping from middle class status to become taxi drivers, police officers, and construction workers. The ultimate male-homosexual social dream is to sit at an elegant dinner table, complete with flowers and doilies and finger bowls, surrounded by rich, successful, superbly suited and gowned, witty, and cleverly immoral people. The ultimate lesbian social dream is to pack it in at some matey lunch counter with the heftier proles, wearing work clothes and doing a lot of shouting and kidding.
At the end of the book, Fussell talks about something he dubs, “The X Way Out.” People in this class, X people, tend to transcend these distinctions in a kind of witty an irreverent way, that is to say they distance themselves from but do not ultimately reject the existence or necessity of such constructs. If you want to read about X people, and see if you are one, you’ll have to buy the book yourself. I would like to see an updated version of this book, especially now that we have an Ivy League educated president who acts as folksy cowboy (a kind of dumbing down of America to which Fussell alludes.) For all the humor in the book, though, I think this is a very important topic for the times. Considering that the world is becoming more globalized, what does that mean to the unique American class system. Do current distinctions remain relevant, and if not, what fundamental re-structuring is called for? Hard to know, but it’s important to look into this topic, class, which seems to be the great elephant in the room when it comes to American life.
Cure the Cure
I am on a few listservs related to various topics. I just recently received an email via one of them regarding a story that I had not previously heard about. The basic gist is this: A young gay kid in Memphis, TN, came out to his family and was subsequently shipped off to a Christian fundamentalist re-education center. Now I imagine that this thing has happened before, but this specific case has generated quite a buzz within certain internet circles. One reason in particular is that he was able to do a few updates on his blog while this was going on. The sad thing is that his last update talks about suicide and there has not been a new one since the 3rd of June. Some people are questioning whether this entire blog is a hoax, and though of course I can’t be sure, I imagine it is for real.
First, check out the website for the place where he was sent:
“Love In Action – International Inc.”
The gist of the program he is in is to help people with addictions. Being homosexual is considered by these people as one such addiction. I can’t imagine what the day to day of the program is, but I can’t imagine it is pretty.
Here is the link to his blog:
Zach’s Blog
These Love In Action people seem to be cozy with the group “Focus on the Family.” The people in this organization are basically super-right wing Jesus freak nuts. Idiots such as these people are pushing for the Federal Marriage Amendment. Read their dossier on homosexuality by clicking here.
These people may seem stupid, but they are politically savvy. For instance, they have basically cloned Focus and created “Focus on the Family ACTION.” The crucial difference is that this 2nd organization is not a non-profit and is thus able to more fully engage in political lobbying.
Check out their website: Focus on the Family ACTION
Notice that the News section of this website links directly to the Focus website.
And if this stuff is interesting to you, be sure to check out: Exodus International a flat out anti-gay super Chrustian crusading organization. Check out their FAQ section for some really enlightening reading.
Man, it sucks to read about my country this way. But this is an important time for the USA. We must not allow ourselves to be scared into submission by constant threats of terrorism and we can not continue to pursue a policy of perpetual war. We must focus on extremely pressing domestic issues, which means renewing the fight for civil liberties across the board. I don’t want to go down in history as the generation that allowed the gains of the 1960’s to be lost to crooked neocons and religious fundamentalists. I know America is great, but we’ve got to fight dirty – our future depends on it.
When an Insult becomes a Crime
France has recently passed a new law making homophobic remarks hate crimes with hefty fines and jail sentences. The country already has a law banning hate speech against minorities, but with this recent addition, both anti-gay and anti-female remarks are covered. Anti-gay or sexist remarks can now net up to $60,000 in fines or a year in jail. The motivation for this legislation is that during the past year, anti-gay acts committed against persons doubled within the country. Thus the idea is that with such penalties, thugs would think twice about knocking someone up because he or she was gay.
This has, of course, provoked a lot of reactions. Those who are for it, notably the gay rights groups, say that it is about time that homophobia was placed on the same level as racism. They argue that it ensured equal treatment under the law for a minority group which heretofore was not covered.
On the other hand, many are speaking out against this law, claiming that it will stifle freedom of speech. One of the major dissatisfied parties is the Catholic Church, which worries that it will no longer be able to speak honestly on homosexuality in general and the gay marriage debate.
Perhaps more interesting, though, is the nature which different gay groups are going to work with this new law. Inter-LGBT, which appears to be a GLBT umbrella group, says that it will act only upon flagrant violations of the law. However, SOS Homophobie, a more radical group, is claiming that by simply stating that homosexuality is abnormal, the law is being violated.
This latter position worries me, and is probably a good way to understand why hate crimes legislation, abroad and in the US, is such a controversial topic. In the instance of the Matthew Shepard case, the cruel and unusual punishment he received was surely motivated by anti-gay bias. Unless statements are made that such behavior is unacceptable in civilized societies, one can only assume such incidents will continue. Thus, just as lynchings no longer (or very rarely) occur, the law ought to say that gays can not be singled out and subject to violence without severe penalties.
However, if somebody believes that homosexuality is abnormal, but commits no violence against gays, I am hard pressed to believe a crime has been committed. I may believe that women are not as smart as men, and although that may be deemed a stupid or narrow-minded view, it is not illegal. I am free to say this to women (though I would have to be prepared for a punch or slap in return,) or write about on my website. Similarly, those who believe that homosexuality is abnormal should be afforded the right to their beliefs. Again, if such an individual seeks to cure abnormal homosexuals by bashing them in the skull with a baseball bat, he should be punished.
There is a big difference between words and actions. Though words can lead to actions, this is not by any means the rule. The scary part of this law is the chilling effect it will cast upon day to day life. Are comedians no longer allowed to do routines that poke fun at homosexual behavior? What about TV evangelists who offer salvation from the sickness? Though we may disagree with the message, banning the message will not change the messenger.
The real problem here is that there are people who hate gays just because of their sexuality and seek to hurt them. Will this law mean anything to those who feel this way? Probably not. Will this law anger those who are sympathetic to gays by imposing yet another level of curtailment on their freedom of expression? Surely. It seems that in the shortsighted strategy of ridding the world of yucky people who are hateful, this law might just be putting gays in a more difficult position. The chilling effect will reach those who want to honestly debate and discuss issues such as homosexuality and gay marriage; moderate voices will fall silent while the radical ones on both sides will become ever louder.
What do you think about this ban?
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Dangerous Media
Today we have a disturbing entry. Let me introduce you to the United Church of Christ. The UCC is really a grouping of churches, ranging from the very liberal to the modestly conservative. The idea of the the UCC is to articulate church, and Christ, as a place welcoming to all people. What “all people” really means is, gays, minorities, women, etc. So, since churches can tend to be rather stick in the mud places regarding social trends, the UCC seeks to embrace the results of the civil rights movements while keeping space for faith. The church ordained the first openly gay Christian minister back in 1972.
I find that the UCC is a brilliant example of a “uniting, not dividing” institution. And of course, this goal, uniting a deeply divided country has been all the talk of all the politicians – even W himself. Therefore one would assume that the UCC’s mission would be welcome on the public airwaves in the form of a commercial.
Not so.
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